Nothing makes red pop more than pale skin. As we age, our skin fades. The pigmentation actually fades out on us. There's nothing we can do to stop it. Red lipstick looks really good on older women. You have to try a couple usually to find the right shade of red. Some are a bit orangey, some a bit blue. By wearing a red lipstick, you can define your whole face and people may start listening again. Just in case you think you've become invisible and people have stopped listening to you.
So, how about a little bit more red? Try a red manicure. Pick a red polish close to the tone of the red lipstick you chose. That should be the right shade for your skin tone. Especially if you talk with your hands, all of a sudden, people will sit up and listen!
Now, this last bit of red is just for fun for those who like to play a bit. No hair takes color better than white hair. How pretty would your hair look with a streak of red in it? One lock in a lovely red mixed in with the rest of your white locks?